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Reva Sharma
I pride myself on my
ability to steer away from clichés, but just
this once, I'll turn a blind eye to one - 'the best
stories you will ever hear are the real ones' - because
it is true. Fact: My Nanaji was one of the only survivors
on a train that was ambushed by angry rioters as it
travelled from Lahore to Jallandhar in 1947, just days
before partition. Fact: My Dadiji was married aged 14
to a man she barely knew; she gave birth to, and raised
11 children, some of whom she outlived. Fact: My Naniji
was one of the only Indian women to receive home tutoring
from a British nanny. I can carry on listing fascinating
facts like these about my grandparents for hours; you
just tell me - how long have you got?
My grandparents had all passed away
by the time I was nine years old; in fact my maternal
grandparents died before I was even born. Nevertheless,
a bit of digging and piecing together of half-told anecdotes
from my parents, aunts, uncles, and cousins has meant
that I now have a pretty robust jigsaw puzzle of what
their incredible lives were like. If my grandparents
were here today, I would make some tea and sit by them,
laptop in hand, soaking up every detail of every story
they had to tell.
I guess you can see why I leapt on
'Kahani' as soon as I heard about it. As British Indians,
our grandparents have lived phenomenal lives. Most have
been through wars, partition, independence, migration
and here they are in front of us, living, breathing,
historical storybooks, just waiting to be unpeeled.
Let's face it, the egg timer is on: we don't have forever
to catch these wonderful tales, and the thought of being
a part of this process was something that I was very
excited about...
Putting Kahani together was a different matter all together.
Over the course of a few months, I went to meet some
enthusiastic, bright-eyed children of varied ages and
backgrounds in a bid to get them to connect to their
grandparents and share their stories with me. Of course,
I forgot that when you're at school, the last thing
you want to do when you get home is more writing! So
if you did manage to squeeze in a kahani between My
Parents are Aliens and Neighbours, then my special thanks
go out to you. Moreover, I hope the experience of sharing
a chunk of your grandparents lives helped you to see
them in a different light.
I won't get all preachy now, but
it's really easy to forget that those grandparents we
see everyday going to Sainsbury's and watching Star
News have most probably travelled several continents
in their lives, learnt new languages, adapted to new
cultures, faced tremendous adversity and most importantly,
are directly or indirectly the reason that we are here
today. That's what Kahani is about - discovering the
stories that defined their lives and our lives. Sixty
years ago, India was ruled by the British; today we
stand proud as British Indians. How did we get here.
That is Kahani.
However old you are, whoever you
need to talk to, email, text, call - do it and find
out a bit more about your grandparents. Where were they
born? What was the hardest event of their life? What
were their dreams? Ask any question you want and believe
me, you will at the very least be pleasantly surprised
by their answer, if not more.
Everyone has a kahani. It's just
up to us to write them down. Contact me at any time
I'd love to help you in any way that I can.
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Meera Manek
In today's world, where
media is teaching adults and children alike the worthiness
of parents and grandparents, this anthology of stories
provides evidence of respect and affection that is very
much alive in the Indian youth of this country. Not
only are these stories a record of history, a snapshot
of life in another world, which might even seem like
another era and a tribute to the resilience and dedication
of grandparents, but they also confirm that the pulse
of the British Indian youth is very much connected to
their past and their culture.
It is interesting to understand why
all these different individuals are living in Britain
today and what they have grasped about their grandparents'
lives. Each story brings to life a distinct aspect of
each of their backgrounds. It is a riveting journey
through the passage of time, through various countries,
through hardship and through the unique joy that is
shared only between grandparents and grandchildren.
When I began to read and edit these
stories, I travelled with the grandparents through various
countries and through their times. The love with which
each story is written, the small details that add humour
and the poignant aspects of life back then, together
create a fusion of inspiring and heartfelt passages.
It is only now that I realise the significance of this
project of Kahani. Not only does it provide a
written record of untold histories, but it also shows
that children and young adults have taken time to understand
more about their grandparents' lives and have taken
pleasure in doing so. And the joy with which all the
grandparents have imparted their kahanis has given this
project a soul
a purpose.
We seek stories from British Indians
of all ages. They should be no more than 1000 words
and will be published on our website for you, for your
family, and for the world to read.
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